a little over a year in this footage. she loves to get her dance on.. too bad she's so tiny and people don't see her before crashing her to the floor.
Monday, December 28, 2009
kablam!
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Monday, December 21, 2009
name change
i have a thing about last names.
- i was born with one name.
born in the spring of 1979 i was the apple of my parent's eye. clearly.
in love with my given name.
easy to spell my last name. life was good.
- i was given an additional name.
around the spring of 1991 my step dad adopted myself, younger sister and brother.
my mother decided to keep our birth name and just add his to the end.
she did this to soften the blow to my paternal grandmother. the blow that her own son just threw his kids out with the wash.
i hated it.
- moved 3 hours away from my beloved memere around the summer of 1994.
started using just my step dad's name in school.. seemed much easier that both my parent's had that name.
still had to fill out 12 letters on those damn standardized bubble sheets.. not forgetting the space in the middle of the sneaky hyphen.
never let on to memere that i was using this new identity.
had two high school diplomas printed up, one with each name. should have seen the gleam in her eyes to see the birth name still there, in black and white.
- entered college in 1997.
the constant spelling and telling people there was a hyphen.. "what can't find my class list? oh wait, you put it in without a hyphen.. yeah.. that's me".. "what do you mean i didn't pay tuition?"
at this point i hardly identified with the birth name, it wasn't my life anymore.
- married fall of 2007
took his name.
i'm still struggling with this.
i want my caboose name back. the one of the end.
i worked hard to build that identity.
i already had one taken away.
it's been a full year.. 365 since i last heard you wheeze and snore, gurgle on your old man juices.
you have no idea
how much i miss you old man.
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Friday, December 18, 2009
santa trip

our attempt at a visit to saint nick didn't go as hoped this season. it was all excitement and happy thoughts until she was placed on the claus' lap.. then it was screetching and clawing.
it was a noble effort. one for the memory book.




